LET GO OF BLAMING
What do you mean I need to stop blaming? So and so did this to me, I can't be happy because of this or that. I'm sure you can think of an example in your life when someone has wronged you or some circumstance has prevented you from doing, being or having something.
When we blame someone or something for events that have happened to us or as reasons why we can’t do, be or have fill in the blank, several things happen. First, and some people are very comfortable with this, it allows us to not have to take responsibility for something. It “gets us off the hook” for why things went the way they did. It allows us to not have to do anything uncomfortable to change or better the situation. It makes us a victim and lets us be lazy. The second point to realize here is that as long as someone or something else is the reason you can’t do, be or have; you can NEVER achieve what you want until they, or it, changes. You will always be waiting for them or the situation to change before you can have the life you desire.
Here’s the catch: not only are you powerless to change that one thing, but knowing how the Law of Attraction is always working, knowing how you are always creating on autopilot, you will create more people, events and situations which will match that vibrational state. You will allow yourself to have more reasons to wallow in your total lack of responsibility, in your drama, in your poopy diaper. Granted we went to an extreme there, but it was to illustrate the point. In many of our lives this is happening everyday, it may just be on such a micro scale it is harder to notice. I feel this programmed response is from our childhood model of the world. Cry about it and it will be fixed for us by someone else. So how do you let go of blaming? Begin allowing; allowing things to be as they are and be okay with them. For more information see PRINCIPLE 11 - ALLOWING.
"As long as you make someone or something else is the reason you can’t do, be or have; you can NEVER achieve what you want until they, or it, changes."